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Falling in love maybe easy but staying in love is definitely hard. But there are always few rules that we should keep in our mind for a smooth sailing love life.

Here we go……again
There has definitely been a love interest in everyone’s life if there hasn’t been then there surely will be.
But before you make the decision to confess to your crush it is necessary know a few things about him/her. For instance find out him/her likes and dislikes, passions and interests, him/her best friends, favourite band, etc .
Don’t worry you have different sites like orkut, hi5 etc to help you out with this.
And of course there are those great helpers- FRIENDS. Exploit them to know whether the girl likes you or not. Keep pestering them. If they don’t budge shower them with gifts that ought to do it.
But don’t push them too far that they pose as a barrier in your love quest.
If you are in the delusion that a love potion will help you get a girl then wake up form your dreams cause the only thing that will actually work is personality and charisma. don’t believe me go ask Reggie who gets the girls him or Archie.

The first innings- the dos and don’ts
Always dress simple but elegantly.
Never mispronounce the name.
Be aware of what is going on around you.
don’t you dare stare.
Let her order first.
don’t spend too much of his money on day 1.
If she insists let her pay don’t be too manly.
Let her pay only half.
Gift her something on days 1.
don’t criticize his/her friends.




THE RELATIONSHIP HAMPERS-[make movement or progress difficult]

No I am not talking of the coffee with Karan hampers.
Relationship hampers are those occasions that one dare not forget.
Put reminders in your cell. Mark it on your calendars and also your partners calendars .
Do everything and anything that will keep you from forgetting these dates.
Girls especially are sensitive about these things. Some even tend to celebrate one week anniversary.
There are the first date anniversary, the monthly anniversary, yearly anniversary, and there are the many first time anniversary like the first time we met and so on.
If he/she forgets a date, use signals to remind him/her and if he/she still does then tell them about it and show them their anger.


What to give and what not to give that is the question.

Giving a girl thousand roses may be romantic but check if your girl is allergic to flowers.
Know her tastes and interests. Not all are one and the same.
There is no doubt a woman loves jewellery but not on all occasions. That just makes you seem predictable.
There are many options out there- for spa vouchers to candles. From heels to earrings. From books to cute little teddy bears.
Warning: Never gift a girl perfume unless you know her brand.

Its about time that girls stop gifting the guys wallets and deodorants. Are we trying to say that your pocket seems to be empty at least carry a wallet or that hey you stink put some of this on.
Now a days even guys are wearing accessories if your guy is one of them then go ahead and give him some. Even if you don’t like him wearing accessories he will at least be porting the ones you like.
Tattoos is also one thing you can gift your guy. You can also give him books, clothing, pc games etc.
Here again you can exploit his/her friends find out which is the brand the girl wears or what are the games he likes.




“Any hesitation on your side will be held against you in the court room of the father.”

Yes the interview that all have to go when meeting ones parents. Many say it is like a job interview but I don’t see any boss asking you about the intricate details of your life.
Be geared with all answers for the rapid fire round.
It is important that you remain calm and answer the questions at a steady speed.
When the question round starts don’t panic and don’t over react and don’t overdo things.
Be cordial with them. Let them ask you to call them mom and dad till then you are restricted to sir and aunty and remember not all love bear hugs so stick to the simple namaste which will start you off well.

At times you will even be caught off guard. Be honest but know what to say and how much to say.
Don’t crack lousy jokes but laugh at the jokes cracked by your in-laws.
And this is not the appropriate time to discuss religional, political issues. Who cares if your him/her parents support the BJP instead of the Congress. You are not there to take a poll.
Important: please don’t touch each other in front of the parents.
It is hard for a mother to accept another woman in her sons life and for a father to accept another man in his daughters life. So if you are trying to please your girls parents try to gain her moms love and her dads trust and vice versa.


The green monster- a friend or enemy
This monster can spice up your relation or it can ruin your relation.
Go ahead and have a long conversation with your friend and don’t involve your boyfriend in it. If you see him going nuts then girl your love is true.
But don’t go to the extent of smooching some1 cause no guy will take it lying down.
Jealousy is basically your meter which tells you the degrees of your love.

I yell you yell!!!
“Do you love me?”
“Huh?”
“Do you love me?”
“Hmmm….” beep beep beep Sorry you have given the wrong answer you have been eliminated.
All have fights if you don’t then there is something wrong in the relation.
There are always the petty fights- you are late! And there are always the big fights- you are always late!!
If he/she is angry give him/her some time.
Listen to your girl as she is willing to tell. Understand your guy as he doesn’t know how to express.
Fights are important in ones relation but if you are creating issues out of small things think again.
Sometimes it is better to let go of some things before he/she decides to let go of you.