Enough is enough

How is it that people keep bitching about others but hate to hear anything about them? If someone is rude to you, you keep pestering yourself about that person but if anyone is good to you, you take them for granted. Why is it that when they treat you bad you are hurt, but if they tell you about their feelings you become all emotional? Hypocrisy to the core is what this is.

Life is not complicated. We make it complicated by letting such ignorant fools in our life. We always make excuses for others behaviour and keep explaining our behaviour. Why do we wait for approval when all the other person does is reject you. When they don’t need your advice, why wait on them hand and foot.
I am sick and tired of the above mentioned people and hereby pledge to keep away from such losers. It isn’t that I will die if I don’t have their company. Some people don’t give that easily. I am one of them. I keep changing my behaviour hoping to get their acceptance. This makes me look like a beggar with no self-respect. I gain their acceptance but in bid lose my self- respect.

Why do I want their acceptance? It is because I have accepted them as an important part in my life. Basically if I decide this person is important, it is then that all this above drama kicks into action. So I first have to give a ‘rat’s arse’ to get rid of this drama.

Is it that I am a dumb blonde who is dependent on others for a social life? Frankly speaking I will be more than happy to curl up in a corner with a good book. Without them will I have no human touch? Of course not, the places in my life for close and near ones are full and I need no added baggage. For anyone to stereotype me I have to allow them and from now I formally strip everyone of the privileges of categorizing me.

All I want to do is live my own life to the fullest extent doing what I please and I need no Tom, Dick and Harry’s permission to do so. So I bid good-bye to all those monsters in my life who I had till now given the permission to hurt me. This write-up is an announcement of farewell to the threats to my happiness.
Get ready to welcome a new me who gives a ‘rat’s arse to any dumb nonsensical torture on earth or above.